“It takes two to dance” is a common line that we hear all the time. From everyday small talk to pop music, it’s a cliché we just can’t get enough of. However, when it comes to sex and penetration, it’s actually true. Oh, yeah! We’re here to talk about double penetration (DP). You know — two dicks and one girl? That’s right. It’s time to go over the top!
But wait, there’s one problem. Enjoying double penetration with your partners isn’t as easy as it might seem. Moreover, it’s quite messy if you’re a newbie. The whole act involves lots of preparation, communication, and actual choreography between the three of you. So, for you to not get hurt or have a bad time, we’ll discuss all you need to know about DP.
Why Should You Prepare
When someone mentions double penetration, most people will think about two cocks and one female. However, that’s just one form of DP action. Although it might seem strange to you at first, the number of people doesn’t need to be three. Namely, one person can enjoy a quality DP if they stuff their body with two sex toys (mainly dildos and vibrators). Nevertheless, the traditional double penetration experience is when three people (two males and one female) gather and have group sex.
But DP is quite tricky, as we’ve said. To pull it off, people need to prepare thoroughly, as it mostly involves anal penetration and complex sex positions. Booty sex in itself is tricky for starters, let alone enjoying it simultaneously with vaginal or oral intercourse. It can hurt, and it can hurt more than you can imagine. Hence, let’s find out how to prepare, shall we?
Mental Preparation
Like with most new things in life, double penetration requires mental preparation. This means that you should rethink things before you engage in this act. Of course, it’s easier if you’re alone and with your DP toys. There’s not much to think about while masturbating, right? But, on the other hand, doing it with other people is something else entirely.

All guides for double penetration should mention one thing — how will you look at yourself once things are through? Sure, this might sound harsh, but it’s vital to have a good time and a happy sexual life. If it’s something you’re not sure about and your partner/s is/are talking you into, well, it might not be the best idea. Take your time to decide.
Furthermore, there’s a lot of stigma around sex, let alone some extreme acts like DP. People talk about their sexual experiences, and people get hurt when rumors start flying around. For the bottom, it’s easy to find themselves on the receiving end of shit talk, making them appear like sluts. But by being mentally prepared and knowing who you’re doing the act with, you’ll make things easier even if it spirals out of control.
Team Preparation and Communication
The next step when it comes to preparation for double penetration is teamwork. Since this act usually involves three people, it’s best to talk things through with each other. That means making sure everyone understands their roles and how far they can take things. You can also agree on a safe word. If, at any point, the bottom becomes uncomfortable, it will help break the deed and allow you time to think things through once more.
Other important things you should go through are unwanted pregnancy and STI prevention. Since there are more partners than two — typically — the chance of someone spilling their load into the female receiver’s vagina is a bit higher. Similarly, the chance of STIs is higher than usual. Therefore, making sure all participants are free of dangerous infections and using protection is of the essence. Don’t fool around.
Sex Toys’ Assistance
Similarly to doing anal for the first time, preparing for a DP with sex toys is your best chance to pull it off successfully. With dildos, vibrators, beads, butt plugs, the bottom of the double penetration can see what it feels like to have two objects inside them. Moreover, there are exclusive DP toys that have flared bottoms and two faux penises. These rude boys come in all shapes, sizes, and materials, making preparation a piece of cake.

Getting Into the Right Position
Numerous sex positions work great with DP action. Nevertheless, not all of them are beginner-friendly. They require quite some skills, form, and elasticity from all participants. Still, you can make it work, even if you’re not that flexible in bed. Some of the best beginner positions for double penetration are doggy style, rider on top, and 69ing.
When it comes to doggy, the bottom is down on all fours. One partner penetrates them as usual for this position — from behind, anally — and the other lies underneath them, sliding their penis into the other love hole. The rider on top works similarly, so we don’t need to explain that, do we? Yet, 69ing in DP style is all about one person penetrating the receiver while they orally satisfy the third partner. Simple, isn’t it?
Aftercare and Afterthoughts
Once the deed is done, it’s more than important to check on each other’s emotions and actual physical needs. The same goes if you do it solo. This act can be quite an emotional rollercoaster once it’s done. Therefore, to have a better experience the next time, everyone should state what was good, what wasn’t, and what you can include. If you, the bottom, feel exhausted, make sure to drink lots of water and contact your doctor if there are any severe pains after a day or two.